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Let’s bring back concert culture

We are a nation that has suffered much over the years economically, politically and physically. We really need more people attending creative events and listening to music. PHOTO: AFP

So what do people my age talk about when they meet? When I say my age I mean the mid-30s where almost all of us have settled down to something or someone. We don’t talk about politics like everybody younger than us (thanks to Immy K) and older than us (thanks to the rest) does. We don’t talk about cricket because frankly, we are too busy to remember all the names in this ever changing team which is divided for us into the Afridis and the Misbahs.

So what do we talk  about?

Music.

Yes, definitely music. The one force that binds us all and makes us talk endlessly about the the concerts we grew up attending.

Having grown up in Karachi in the 80s and 90s, one can’t forget the times when Vital Signs used to play at the Arts Council unnoticed, until they finally broke through the ubiquitous Pakistani ‘pop’ barrier and suddenly became a stadium filling band with no end in sight but the eventual break up.

The same period saw Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan’s rise to stardom, from just an ordinary qawal to a world famous music legend.

These watershed moments were followed by the emergence of ‘Junoon’, the biggest rock band of Pakistan,  and for a period of five to eight years, Karachi saw concert after concert of tremendous quality and influence.

Everything used to happen at concerts in that era. It was the social scene, the place you took your date to or where you found one. That was where you hung out with your friends. There was no cyber space, no security threat; it was just a bunch of kids, screaming and singing with dreams in their eyes.

Then suddenly, the world changed.

The war came to us in terms we were unfamiliar with, and the killings, the suicide bombings and the destruction started.The concept of concerts as social gatherings died a slow death in this new era because they had become too much of a security risk. Quite frankly, they still are a risk but I think we have now arrived at another turn.

In 2011, there were interesting things happening in Karachi including concerts (mostly indoors at Royal Rodale) and musicals (courtesy Nida Butt and crew) but people are still reluctant to go to them for mainly two reasons:

  1. People feel the crowd will be too maila (indecent). This is quite unfortunate, as ‘them’ and ‘us’ never existed until a few years ago, or perhaps they did but were never used politically so it wasn’t obvious. Every person has the right to enjoy music and art as much as any of the urban elite do. No one section of society should shun the other. We should try to rise above this attitude and believe me, it is quite possible to do so. The recent PTI jalsas are good examples of it since they aren’t much more than grand concerts and are pretty successful too.
  2. They think the facilities will not be worth the prices attached to them. This is an unfortunate reality in the day and age of many event management companies that are out to make a fast and easy buck. However, if one gets in touch with organisers before hand, rather than believing what’s written on flyers or through second hand channels, the information is closer to reality and you also have someone to hold accountable for it. I personally became a believer again when I took my eight-year-old daughter to Mamma Mia last year.

We are a nation that has suffered much over the years economically, politically and physically. We really need more people attending creative events and listening to music because even though they are ‘cool’, Facebook and social media can never replace the feeling of being in a crowd.

We need music to heal and we need large open air concerts to unite as a city and as a community. Let’s not be restricted behind sections and VIP barriers anymore. Let’s learn to tolerate and participate, if not for ourselves then for our children, so they can also have great memories like ours.

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Published in E tribune Jan 25 2012

Park your camera elsewhere

In Pakistan we start putting barriers between gender at an early age. Kids are told that there are certain things boys can do and certain things girls can. How can I say this? Well its because I have a daughter and a son who go to two different highly acclaimed schools in Karachi and come back to me with gender specific questions they must be hearing in the conversation around them.

See what I did there? I made a sort of a generalization and then backed it up with an instance experienced by me personally as a dad thus lending it some array of credibility. This is the least one should expect from any voice which has a national audience. However one look at the video embedded above will show you that our morning show hosts have not just thrown any integrity out of the window but have stooped to doing anything for ratings, screw credibility.

Why is it that we must assume that a man and a woman sitting on a bench in a park are doing something immoral? Why is sin the first thing that comes to our mind when witnessing anything like this. How can breakfast shows that rampantly show quite vulgar dance and mehndi numbers regularly, suddenly be the upholders of moral purity on entering a park? What about privacy and the rights of a pakistani citizen as promised by the state? What is the purpose behind shows like this, is it to get a fatwa or a honor killing?

These are some of the hard questions people should be asking of the main stream media in our country when it engages in gross violation of public privacy shown on the video above. In fact a firestorm should have ensued a long time ago at some of the filth our media is showing us! From mangled body parts to cybercafe raids (remember that one?) we are being subjected to a dose of anything goes as long as we can watch it.

We should also then take one long hard look in the mirror and ask our own selves why do we stay silent when stuff like this happens. Where will it stop? Will we only speak up when they put cameras on our bedroom windows?

The best way to approach something like this as someone educated ( I am assuming you are since you are reading this) is to write, not only to sponsors (meaning brands advertising) on shows we find offensive and the management of channels hosting these shows themselves. If that does not deter them then civil society should stop molly coddling about and hold a demo outside a tv channel once in a while, the press club is kind of on a full schedule.

If we as a society do not respect the members in it, as people who can do what they want with their own free will and staying within boundaries of decency we have no right to claim ourselves as a society. If this is what we enjoy watching then we are just a mob around an accident. Please note even if boundaries of decency are crossed, we do still have a police force and particular laws on these matters to be enforced by a very active judiciary. No media organization has the right to act as a parallel system of justice in this nation.

We the viewers have to put our foot down at some point and I think the point has been reached some time ago. We have to start dictating what we wish to see rather than inhaling what they want us to see about Pakistan. We have to make sure our mainstream media lives up to the power and responsibility we have given it rather than the ambulance chasing it is doing now.

 

Helping Pakistan one zahir at a time

Many Pakistanis I meet are fed up, frustrated and pissed off at their lives being incomplete because even though they make enough they aren’t fulfilled. The chief reason they usually give for this un fulfillment is that they want to help their country but do not know how to. Obviously in a place where the system is morally and ethically bankrupt, everyone’s  out to make a quick buck and no checks and balances its hard to  contribute.

However if one is look hard enough there are many many opportunities out there for us to make a difference. I met such an opportunity last Saturday when I attended an event organized by Mera passion pakistan.  a localized version of TED lets call it, without the elitism or the androids reading qcodes on invites and all. A forum which picks up ordinary Pakistanis who have really done some extra ordinary things and show cases them. Its here that I met zahir shah.

Now everyone knows this nation has a serious power problem. Many people are often seen on social medila lamenting load shedding and cursing their respective  electric supply company and so on. What of people though who live in areas where there is no electricity at all? Zahir shah hails from such an area in buner. I cant even pronounce its name properly but you get the idea. So what does he do? He starts out on a project to build a power plant from scratch with Rs 180 in 2005 using the waterfall close by. Now obviously with such a swades like undertaking people make fun of you, as do people often enough in Pakistan of anyone with any real talent so  they did, until with the limited resources he had and the sale of his lands he managed to on his own  complete this plant in 2011. He  is now providing electricity to 120-165 homes in this village. Amazed yet?  He only charges 250 rs a month and that too is voluntary since when I asked him as to what he does if they cant pay he laughed and said “so what we cant cut their electric off can we”

Now to the first part of my post on how we can help. Zahir shah had two requests he needs a dynamo and a transformer to enable him to provide electricity to these homes in the day time as well. The dynamo was promised by the Mera Passion Pakistan team. I promised that we would spread word of his effort and collect enough funds for him to buy a transformer.

The cost Rs 125,000

All we need is 25 people from among  us contributing  Rs 5000 each. May be a hefty sum for some people but we all know how we spend it in the course of a week here in Karachi, Lahore or Isloo.

So if you want to help be a part of a 165 home village getting electricity in an area of Pakistan which is remote to say the least? Pledge on the comments here and as soon as I have an account from the mera passion Pakistan team we can all send our 5 k there and know we did something other than stand by and chatter.

I will be the first one to volunteer my five thousand…24 more to go.. over to you Pakistan.

17/1/2012

Just spoke with Mera passion Pakistan team. They are thrilled to hear of our interest and pledges and have contacted zahir shah for a list of equipment he needs, transformer, dynamo, distribution wire etc. Once they have that list they will give us an account no we can put our donations in and then they will not only buy and send the equipment themselves but will visit the plant and take current pictures of it, hence ensuring complete transparency.

Winter clothing drive by NWO

We at Sarelief have worked with Nishat wellfare group through out this year in different stages on flood relief activities.  At present our funds have run out but since Nishat is gathering money for winter clothing for  flood affected and other poor families for distribution in Uc Burhoon district Sanghar, we are doing what we can from family and friends.

Sa relief is going to provide for 100 families.

The cost per family comes to 2035 or usd 22 to be exact.

We could donate old clothes as well and save some funds yes, but think of what a hard life these people lead, new clothes will atleast see them through one year of hardship.

You can donate direct to Nishat well fare if you wish.

A/c Title: Nishat Welfare Organization.
A/c No: 01031418
Branch Code: 536
Bank: UBL
Branch: Quaid-e-Azam Road Hyderabad.

On our part we will be in constant touch with reps on ground and provide pics as well as if possible an entire list of beneficiaries.

Please put your  donated amount in comments on this post, I will not publish them but will maintain a record for tracking on my part.

Thanks to all!

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