Aap bakwaas band karen ge?

These were the words spoken to me by a smiling girl with glasses in a small cafe which was the first version of T2F many years ago here in Karachi, . The premise was me sitting and hammering something out on a laptop mini I had at that time and her coming over to invite me into a discussion they were having on the other table & me retorting with the usual who what where how questions, as discourse in Pakistan with strangers was unfathomable to me. She retorted with “Aap bakwaas band karen ge tu me bataon gi na” and jarred me out of whatever state of  denial I was in to join the conversation going on. That girl was Sabeen Mehmood.

Over the years I kept going back to T2F and had the pleasure of talking to Sabeen many times, working with her in the #SOCMM12 and meeting many special people through the space she had created out of sheer passion and not much else for all of us. Instead of focusing on the past though I would like to talk about the things I noticed when I went for Sabeen’s funeral at T2F yesterday..the 25th of April 2015.

I noticed that it is extremely hard to carry a friends coffin…It felt like the weight of the world and all her hopes and dreams were upon me…

I noticed it is surreal when you see friends who have mentored so many over the years, who have stood resolute amongst the toughest times cry like babies..

I noticed how heartwarming & ironic it is to see hundreds upon hundreds turn up for a funeral from all parts of life and community here in Karachi..

I noticed that there is something absolutely wrong about banks upon banks of cameras taking pictures at a friends funeral…preparing for coverage without even understanding what this meant or who she was..naapa type crowd lagta hay some of them said..

I noticed that I had not attended a funeral where women walked with the coffin..went to the mosque and prayed the namaz e janaza and then walked alongside the men to the graveyard to stand witness to the burial…

I noticed that I have never seen a woman as graceful, humble and strong as Sabeen’s mother on her daughters funeral consoling her friends and well wishers….

I noticed & understood what it means when a person breathes life into a building as T2F yesterday seemed desolate and cold…

We all cried at Sabeens funeral, but I think she was sitting up there laughing at us and there is a reason for me saying this. You see yesterday was the most well attended event T2F ever had, yesterday was the day everyone came readily. Before yesterday anyone can see the pictures of Sabeen protesting at different venues all over this city and you will see Zak, Nuzhat aunty, her mom, Mohsin, Awab and a smattering of people that were always with her, not the crowds of hundreds that showed up. You can also pore through the pictures of events at T2F whether they were cultural or musical or discussion based and also count the number of cameras present which brings me to my point.

We as a nation have a habit of glorifying people when they leave us…but I ask all of you this today.. where were we when she needed us the most? Has anyone ever considered the fact that this was a hero living in our midst and we had the chance to aide her in her struggle rather then to ignore the many messages she sent out for people to come and join her? (choro yar sabeen akeli kafee hay) Have all of these people writing eulogies on social media about Sabeen (i’m not trying to take away from their feelings) stood up for what she believed in? Have they read her statuses about how it feels to stand in the sun outside press club with 7 people and then be made fun off? Do we understand what we have lost as a city? Are we going to carry on her dream… her T2F? Will we become united in the face of the odds that stand before us today?

Sabeen was a force of nature and because she was that, she made all these things happen around her and in her path. However that force of nature is gone now. What is to come is up to us… what is to come is what Sabeen gave her life for….


Alvida sabeen…me phir bakwas karne laga..kia karun purani aadat hay na..S.M Khan aur Steve Jobs ko mere sallam dena..issi order me.






Karachi is a coastal city in the southern part of Pakistan notorious for its contradictions and famed for its character. In the last decade or so the city has seen many a tumultuous time due to ethnic and other tensions but that will never mask the fact that Karachi is a microcosm of Pakistan as a country and a very good starting point for anyone who wishes to visit.



A view of the empress market

The old bazaars in Karachi are an essential stop for any tourist to the city. Empress market being the kaleidoscope it is, with its numerous stalls selling everything from pets in every way shape or form to carpet vendors selling intricate hand stitched rugs along with stalls of low cost bracelets and wine glass necklaces. Granted there have been reports of pets not treated right at these facilities., but still the place to go if you would like to acquire one or free one as well.  Bohri bazar which can be considered a mirror to the Indian chandni-chowk is a real bargain hunter’s paradise. Nothing very posh, the maze like lanes are usually covered  up top with plastic sheets to form awnings to shade the narrow streets. This bazaar is a place buzzing with activity and surrounded by colonial era buildings which gives you a taste of its rich history. In Bohri bazaar you can find anything from amazing silver jewellery to a dupatta dyeing house (dupattas are brightly coloured scarves used by Pakistani women to accent their outfit modestly) and whilst you are in this bazaar there are several mouth watering dhabas (roadside eateries)dotted around as well ranging from the local watermelon juice vendor to crisp fried samosas when you want them. Also of interest in these bazaars are various “reshamgalis” lanes where silk and silk made crafts are sold that are a must visit.


Bohri bazaar

If you want thrift or our version of the grand flea market you need to look no further then Karachi’s Sunday bazaar. Remarkable in it being housed in the poshest part of town and offering dirt cheap deals on everything used under the sun. Have you ever wondered what its like to skip through stall upon make shift stall laden with goodies with sand underneath your feet and the sea about 10 mins drive from you? That is the Sunday bazaar where I have found over time amazing original comics to books and star wars figurines at prices like 0.50 USD and also really good deals on used Nikon lenses (bought a 25x80mm for 5 usd in mint condition) It is a great place to pick a good deal. A word of advice though, the young boys following you around offering to carry your bags can get snatchy with your purchases too


Sandspit beach

Karachi is also famous for its beaches, which line the southern coastline for hundreds of kilometres along Arabian sea, as it is known today. In the past this sea was also referred to as the Erythrean Sea and has many a spot for one to just lay back in an easy chair and be mesmerised by the waves. The city’s most popular beaches are at known as Sands pit and Hawks bay but they are not the only ones by any means.

tushan beach

Tushan beach

Further up west from Sandspit lie the beaches of Tushan and paradise point as well as the French beach (private). Karachi also has a marine drive by the name of sea view which happens to be chock full of people in the evenings cooling off from the days heat with their families. The entire strip from Sandspit to Tushan is populated with private huts as well as huts for hire for a days outing and watched over by “Pals” our local version of life guards who are there to lend a hand incase anything untoward happens. There are also ambulance stations near the beaches in Karachi so by and large they are relatively safe to relax at. However it is not advisable to spend the night here unless you are at the French beach(private beach) as there is no electricity in most of the huts on the other beaches.

Aside from its magnificent beaches there are many water sports you could indulge in while on a visit. Charna Island, about an hours sail from Mubarak village and is a beautiful snorkelling spot with two to three adventure companies organising tours every Sunday. One can also hire a local fisher boat from the pier at Keamari and sail off just to see the sunset or sample some amazing spicy crabs cooked live on the boat at sea!An experience to cherish on a balmy, moonlit night in this city.


The grand mohatta palace

 While in Karachi, a visit to the founder of Pakistan, the Qaid E Azam’s Mausoleum is a must. The white marble edifice is constant reminder that this is the city which he chose to live in as well. Another must see place is Frere hall which is now a large public library surrounded by a serene park but boasts an incomplete Sadequain painting on its ceiling which offers different interpretations to anyone who witnesses it. Yet another step back in time is the Mohatta palace, where the sister of the Qaid lived with its gorgeous red façades and grandeur in gardens which is often booked out for official functions and award ceremonies.


Kolachi resturaunt, Do darya

Food is this city’s lifeblood, with restaurants in the upscale neighbourhoods offering up every kind of cruise imaginable from Japanese, Thai, Mexican, Continental, Italian, French, American, Chinese, Vegan and local varieties to street dhabas and stalls in every nook and cranny offering piping hot spicy variations of local and international flavours. Even despite its issues with security most restaurants close at 1 am while the street food goes on till at least 3 am on most nights. Some of the most famous streets for food in Karachi are Burns Road in old town and Boat Basin in the Clifton area and the recently opened Port Grand & Do darya which are lined with restaurants and cafes offering local delicacies and service in an open-air seating. Add Zamzama’s upscale eateries and coffee houses and you have the perfect tasting menu for genuine foodies. Reservations needs to be made in advance for most restaurants in this city as there is usually a line at the door. Upscale eateries like Okra, Xanders, Expresso, Fuscia, Cafe Flo, Pompei or Ginsoy can usually take a wait of half an hour or more if you arrive sans reservations, but more mainstream places like BBQ tonight Bundu Khan, Kolachi, Abdul Ghaffar or Zameer Ansari also have throngs to negotiate almost day in and day out. There are off course many sheesha spots in the city open past 1 am among which the notables are Damascus,Road side café, Arabian nights, Evolution, SattarBuksh, Latte lounge in the Clifton area as well as Al Fakhir at Tariq road.

cafeflo karachi

Cafe Flo

Even though Lahore is known as the cultural centre of Pakistan, visitors to Karachi can enjoy many forms of theatre or musical performances.  Venues like the Arts councilNappa schoolMad theatre & T2F keep serving up with events and performances week after week which can be followed online for booking before you arrive. This city boasts talent in magnitudes as it is constantly receiving immigrants from all areas of the country who bring their own particular brand of cultural entertainment to add variety to the lively entertainment scene. Lately as times dictate there are a variety of workshops on technology as well as spirituality in the form of yoga, dance and aerobics taking place all over the city as well as support groups one can join if introspection of a more personal nature is required.


Frere hall


People in Karachi are urban, closeted, hyper active and over protective of what this city represents. They have been through a lot over time and understand the meaning of cherishing things on a day to day basis. Traffic is mostly difficult at evenings and during school timings in the afternoon, surprisingly as this is a city of 20 million and is constantly active. In the past Karachi was a city with a very active night life as well, known as the city of lights and the city that never sleeps. Now aside from restaurants and its three modern movie theatres Karachi does not host the beer gardens and cabarets of olden times but does provide night life in the form of several regular venues for parties on the weekends as well as a host of permit shops where you can buy liquor as a foreigner which is supposedly banned in Pakistan.

It’s a very resilient and vibrant city bearing scars on it from many a riot and protest, but the way Karachiites see it, every scratch on its face gives the city more character rather than take away from the beauty of it. It is an unforgettable trip for any visitor and home to those who prefer chaos in life rather then the quiet tranquility of places up north in Pakistan

Previously published at Jalaibi.com


Aman – Initiation

My interaction with the Aman foundation began a few years back when I was attending a TED X conference here in Karachi and they had one of their ambulances standing outside for people to check out. From the outside the yellow ambulance looked a bit bigger than the normal body carrier we see moving around this increasingly violent megapolis and not much else. What really surprised me was what was on the inside. They not only had a properly fitted ambulance but emergency medical aid utility as well as defibrillators and a doctor which rode on every call. I remember stepping away thinking naaah how could an organization maintain a fleet of these things in Pakistan and do it in the long run. My mind calculated the Approximate cost of this life saver and came to the quick cynical solution that this was probably one of five such vehicles operating in Karachi.

The realization on how wrong I was came last January when my father in law fell critically ill and after a few days on the ventilator at one of the posher hospitals in the D.H.A area we decided to move him to Agha Khan. I actually couldn’t believe myself as I dialed 1021 and had an efficient person not just handle my case of Histrionics but get the ambulance to us within a matters of 15 minutes to carry my father in law across Karachi seamlessly. That and the excellent courtesy maintained by both the doctor inside the vehicle and the driver of the ambulance is something I will not soon forget. It was on this day that I found out there are about a 100 such vehicles in operation in Karachi situated at 90 key points and this was how they handled each call.

Sadly my father in law did not make it through his illness. However this was the same year in which I started working with UNWOMEN to run a violence against women campaign called “Tashadud na manzur”. In this campaign as we reached out to 1 million people through social media in a matter of three months. I and my team were besieged by calls from females who did not know where to go when faced with violence. These were people across Pakistan who had no idea whom to contact in the case of an emergency, or simply to find out just what the side effects of the medicine they were about to ingest were. I thought by Tashadud na manzurs end we should launch some kind of a hot line, something staffed by professionals willing to help. I rattled around with that idea in my head for some months before someone put me on to 111-11-9123 or Aman Telehealth.

The same Aman foundation ran this hotline and I started to find out how to get in touch with the people behind these services. When I first visited Aman in Jan 2014, I was completely bowled over. I had expected this to be a small well staffed organization but instead it was a behemoth of good will. I do not know whether they are too humble to tell the world or want to do their work quietly, but this foundation has over the last five years spent in excess of 70 million USD in our country just to help Pakistani’s out. They have not just an amazing ambulance service and a telehealth department which handles 400 calls a day with a team of “live via voice” doctors and nurses as well as trained psychologists, but programs like Teach for Pakistan and the Amantech center which I would like to talk about in some detail in my blogs to come.

Right now I am in the process of arranging an outreach program for this organization and I am doing this because the right knowledge needs to spread to the right people. The knowledge which took me almost a year to understand could save lives and the best way I know how to do that is through social media. In the days to come I will be launching a google form that will enable you to sign up and take a tour of Aman’s facilities, there we will all get not just a briefing but can actually attend some of the activities going on daily as well as getting some CPR training. Perhaps some of us can even get involved with this organization and do something for our city and nation. Like Ahsan Jamil the Ceo of this foundation said to me last week.

“Pakistan is not a poor country its a poorly managed country and together we can work towards taking care of its problems”

Well here is to bringing Aman to Karachi and to our lives!


A city on edge

Year after year in Pakistan we see the security situation drop another notch, a bit more of crime becomes acceptable and we go through our paces as if nothing is wrong with us or this society. This year the notorious activities of criminals in Karachi have gone up another level, as from the start of this holy month where people are supposed to exercise restraint things have gone ugly pretty fast.

Not a day goes by where you do not hear of someone you know being either held at gunpoint, kidnapped, conned or made a mamu of in some way shape and form. It ranges from cell phones to car jackings to mass robberies of entire neighborhoods and the police are either totally out gunned or more interested in making sure their record for their particular area stays completely clear (by not noting reports of incidents) then taking any action. Most of the criminals involved have the backing of politicos who sit and wax lyrical about the state of this country on our tv channels thus even if the police tried to take action the norm is a phone call from above resulting in the said criminals (chotas) release.

The CPLC has been doing some remarkable work on this front in recent years but lets call a spade a spade they are a liaison committee not a parallel police force so there are limits to what they can do.  The result is that now mohalla committees have gone into action and started installing barricades all over their neighborhoods with armed guards on them. People often object to these barricades but do not realize that when the state leaves a vacuum someone has to fill it. This is however just the beginning and its not very hard to see compound life being the future of the residential colony in Pakistan with huge walls and armed sharpshooters to keep the ruffians out. D.H.A residents seem to think an electronic entry and exit system to their privileged community should be able to keep the evil at bay, perhaps we will need a visa to go to certain zones of Karachi soon as well.

At this moment in time though the city of lights is deserted and helpless at night. One cannot make any stops between origin and destination lest they are carjacked and things like going to the beach or the highway have really become out of the question after dark. So we are getting restricted, more and more with each passing day. If someone does not get somewhere on time the automatic creepy thoughts start entering your head. As a parent of two young kids who go to school here I personally start to breathe after they are home not before when they are in school.

So what is the solution to all this?. A local police force would be good to start with. One that is as equipped as the people who are trying to rob us would be better. For this I am sure the citizens of this city would be willing to pay whatever tax the said authorities place on us. It would be cheaper than the bhatta all of us have to pay daily in the form of panic, fear, actual theft and so on. However this will also mean that the citizens that is us need to get together and speak out not snigger away when someone loses their new phone. We need to demand our rights from the state and that does not mean making phone calls to someones friends chachas batijha who is in a political party, it means going to the concerned authorities as one and asking for help.

Many people are now leaving Pakistan from the business and the corporate community with each passing day. In the past it used to be out of  better economic opportunity being present abroad, but now it is because they cannot live in this country out of fear of being harassed or killed in their day to day lives.

I think we are now standing at a crossroads. One path leads to a struggle to uplift this nation and the other falls into an abyss from which recovery does not seem possible. If we wish to save this country we have thrived in for our future generations we will have to now take the difficult path..there is no other choice.




Fighting hunger one person at a time

Having done relief work for over two years now one thing has become plain to me, you have to focus on one thing and do it well. When the floods hit the first time round, we were all over the place providing food rations, cooked meals, tents, water proofing roofs, medicals camps, etc etc, we literally ran our selves and our group (SA relief) ragged because we felt that we should do whatever we could, wherever we could. That was because we had little or no experience in the field of relief work. However, in 2011 when the monsoon rain floods swallowed the lives of thousands again, we picked cooked meals and medical camps and just focused on those, hence making a greater impact.

Its because of this personal experience that when the chance came for me to work with an organization like the WFP, I didn’t think twice because they focus on one thing – food. They have food baskets which they use to feed people and locally produced fortified nutrition supplements to bring up nutritional levels of the malnourished all year around. So its not just one month or three months, their efforts last, its long term. Plus even though there are no floods (fingers crossed) this year, there is rampant hunger due to inflation and poverty. So much so that 58% of our nation does not have proper access to food.. imagine that number of our population. When I try to calculate how many people that is and then watch us all waste food everyday it just hurts.

The world food program will try to feed 7.4 million people this year in Pakistan, they cannot achieve this task alone. They need all of us to pitch in and its about 77.55 USD a month for a family’s food needs. Ofcourse they have not received food for a while and thus many of these poor people are malnutritioned.   Its about USD 18 per month to bring a malnutritioned kids levels back up to normal.

In order to contribute you can send your money direct to this account, if you want to volunteer to help WFP please do it here  Do whatever you can and collect any amount you can but please try to help, not just because its ramzan or because its the time to give or whatever but because these are our own countrymen. These are Pakistani’s which we can help directly, instead of talking about them or writing about them or making petitions on facebook or cursing our leaders we can make a difference in peoples lives ourselves. So make that difference. I promise you that you will never regret this decision.


To stare or not to stare


Pakistan has a bit of a problem, ok that’s the understatement of the year. Pakistan has a huge problem and it has nothing to do with guns or terrorists or politics or anything of that nature. No this problem is limited to our social behavior or perhaps we should call it lack of it,  upon coming into contact with a woman.

One would think while walking through a Pakistani market, be it any market here that Pakistani men have been kept locked up in a padded cell somewhere where they have never come into contact with a member of the opposite gender. As they stare at them like a dog stares at a bone after being hungry for a couple of days.

Now correct me if I am wrong but there are plenty of women here in Pakistan and plenty of very good looking ones,  so its not like we are not used to them or have not been around them. Also with the advent of first the satellite dish and then cable tv and now broadband we have had unfettered access to the woman of this world with and without clothes so what’s the big fuss about?

I could still come to terms with it in the 80’s as the cultural paradigm was a bit lets just say starved for entertainment at that time. However in the Pakistan of now where everyone gets their daily dose of skin from the top end to the bottom rung of our society why are we still so hung up on staring at women like we want to tear of their clothes and have them on the road then and there? Obviously I am being crude here but lets just face it looking at a woman like she is a piece of meat isn’t very sophisticated either.

Oh by the way before you trot out your lack of education and not used to exposure culture vulture theories let me  cease them here and now by telling you that women wearing head to toe burqas face the same kind of treatment in Pakistan as their more sleeveless sisters. No one and no class is spared from this disease as you see the same expression on men’s faces in a hi fi mehndi or in the corporate environment as you do when a woman walks by an under construction building. Whoops did I just do a sana safinaz there? No really you get stares even if you are a man walking past one of them construction sites but thats a whole different issue.

I believe the cause of this is is not the second coming of the dajjal or the Amreekan/Indian/Zionist cultural invasion but the fact that people seem to think staring “poondi” is a lesser  form of harassment. This mindset is often reinforced by their peers with statements like “yaar dekh hi tu raha hun” but really we are taking the look and dont touch policy to another level already. Even women and many of them take this treatment without standing up for themselves. However we tend to subdue and turn our women into submissives from the get go with the constant dont create a fuss go home, dont start a tamasha brainwashing which by the time they turn 16 renders them utterly devoid of understanding when they are being harassed. Those that do get it are referred to by most of us as feminists which is actually pakistani slang for cat loving lesbians who have nothing better to do then dare to raise their heads to a male dominated vicious society. Down lesbo down!!!

So how can we stop this?

a) Start early and start at home, make your boys comfortable with female company, stop telling them things like oh this is not for you this is what girls do and crap like that so they stop distinguishing from an early age between the sexes

b) Stop telling your daughters that you should bear this in any way shape or form, inform them of personal space and what they are supposed to do with their knee when someone intrudes in it.

c) Talk to them when they are of an appropriate age of the birds and the bees, in these times it should be a lot earlier than you think it is so read up a bit on it, yes on the internet will do!

d) Try to get them to study in a co education environment. Many lessons can be learnt at school other than the curriculum

e) Also teach them the much forgotten points of Islam, how women are respected in it to the level that heaven is supposed to be under your mothers feet. This may be reinforced if thought appropriate with examples from history when needed.  Teach them about parda e nazar as well as draping them in black.

f) Try to keep an open mind when your kid asks you questions, usually they ask them because they want to know not because they are trying to ruin your super efficient day.

g) Try to put a stop to or raise voice against cases of harassment prevalent around you in the work environment and in public. Which means if someone is bumping against a person in a lift you are standing in put a fucking stop to it rather than look towards the door. If you ignore this you are part of this.

h) Last but not the least please kindly stop judging people, wearing a burqa does not make someone an angel or a cold fish and wearing a sleeveless kamiz does not make someone a whore. Look at people’s characters rather than their physical attributes it proves a little bit longer lasting in life.

I also took the liberty of taking a little twitter survey on this of which the results are given below. In the hope that perhaps reading through these tweets rather than my post will help more people understand that women like to be listened to not stared at when in the company of a man.

Usman Khaliq ‏@usmankhaliq

@faisalkapadia people have a staring problem. woh gender nahin deikhtay, bas insaan hai tou chalta hai uun kay liye.


SairaYasmeen ‏@SairaYasmeen1

@MehrTarar @faisalkapadia @omar_quraishi but in pakistan women consider this as harrassment regardless of whatever they are wearing

Ayesha Hasan ‏@AyeshaHasan

Staring pandemic RT @faisalkapadia: In your opinion do people in pk have a staring problem or is it the woman’s problem?

Sami Ur Rehman ‏@Sam_pk

@faisalkapadia its only pakistani’s problem :) whr ever they will go , thy will show pakistaniyat.

Zehra ‏@DrZehra

@faisalkapadia are u kidding me? Our problem? First of all u should look for a better term than ‘stare’ – more like ‘penetrate via eyes’ etc


Salman Latif ‏@SalmanLateef

@faisalkapadia People have a staring problem in Pk because of the sheer hypocritical morality that is socially enforced, thus repressive.


Qızılbāš ‏@Alihaider33

@faisalkapadia staring is a way of taking out frustration without physically hurting someone and unintentionally becoming a pervert

Sara Nisar ‏@SaraNisar

@faisalkapadia A bit of both. Varies according to the city/area you are in.


Komal Ali ‏@Komalali92

@faisalkapadia People in Pakistan have this problem.


Sahar Ahmed ‏@Sahar_Ahmed1

Its def a Pakistani trait to stare RT @faisalkapadia In your opinion do people in pk have a staring problem or is it the womans problem?


Zainub ‏@BuzzOff_Bozo

@faisalkapadia depends on who’s being stared at.


Ahmad Malik ‏@Ahmad_Malik

@faisalkapadia This will not end well.


Nida Khan ‏@nidak_

@faisalkapadia People are generally overly inquisitive.


Aizah ‏@IZ_110

@faisalkapadia People in Pakistan do have a staring problem.


Asif Ali ‏@Alif_se_Asif

@faisalkapadia women problem.

CinnamonCurls ‏@CinnamonCurls

@faisalkapadia Women in Pakistan have a major staring problem.


Samra Muslim ‏@samramuslim

@faisalkapadia People in PK have a major staring problem! Even the ones in a burqa are stared at … How can it be a women’s prob then?


AR Rafiq ‏@arrafiq

@faisalkapadia I think it’s a desi trait – both women and men stare for not apparent reason


Awais Sultan @awais 

@faisalkapadia As for staring, overseas Pakistanis do it as well. Even those who are 2nd and 3rd generation. But only at other desis.


Awais Sultan @awais 

@faisalkapadia The staring is one thing, but what I find more bothersome is how they slowly scratch their groins whilst doing it. Eww!


SaraLee ‏@Sarstastic

@faisalkapadia South Asian people have a staring problem.


Hajira Mahboob Faizi ‏@hmfaizi

@faisalkapadia its a common problem here.Every single person stares like there z no tomorow.Girls boys everyone has got this horrible habit


Ilmana Fasih ‏@ZEEMANA

@faisalkapadia till ur floor or the next woman specimen to be scanned arrives he is a #DESi


Ilmana Fasih ‏@ZEEMANA

@faisalkapadia gold standard test for all desis.Stand in an elevator with a person next to u.If he scans head to toe till .. 1/2


Pic taken from this tribune blog



Socialmediamela2012’s photostream


The SOCMM12 social media melas photostream was snapped by Tapu javeri, Ali khursid, Fursid & me. Was proud to organize and work with this team..see the results for yourself


Mainstream vs social media media in Pakistan

In recent times after the leak of behind the scenes footage of a special on dunya tv and the creation of a  fake list of 19 journalists who had allegedly taken some form of bribe from Malik riaz,  a vast chasm of insecurity seems to have opened up in peoples minds about social media in Pakistan.

Not a day goes by now when some barb is not thrown at social media here on our broadcast mediums. We have been called a gutter, invisible and non ethical as well as a form of media which has no credentials and no integrity.

Let me first point out that both the behind the screens footage and the list was created by mainstream media and not the social media of this country. Various proofs have been given to this effect in several blogs and I do not want to dwell on them, but the fact remains that because you have an accident you dont stop driving  Hence being the super hyper distribution medium that social media in pakistan is becoming these days with 6 million on face book 3 million on twitter and so on it is pretty silly to blame the medium for good or bad content. That is just like any of us, the viewing public of the broadcast media were to tell them, we dont like so and so show because it goes against what we think so the whole medium is of no use.

Secondly let me now come to the various arguments made against social media and its effective use in this nation one by one.

1) They are not journalists or reporters and thus have no clue of what is going on other than what they glean from our coverage.

In today’s day and age if reporters still think that their press card entitles them to have some kind of monopoly over opinion and how it should be projected then I am afraid they are already left behind. These days a kid with a twitter enabled mobile phone standing across the street can report on who goes in and comes out of your house for instance. They dont need “training or permission” for that. As for bloggers not having first hand information about what goes in this world, wikileaks has proved that they can break channels and cables which the mainstream media cannot even dream off,  so much for that claim.

2) There is too much anonymity is social media and thus anyone can say anything.

First of all who has made our mainstream media tekhaydars of our opinion and why should we listen to them as to what is right or wrong? What and how much actual analytical skill do they posses that they can tell for instance a person like me that x is corrupt and y is..well y we cannot really talk about? The anonymity in social media is for a reason, it is because we can actually reveal things without the burden that putting a face on the screen results in in this country.  Also if they speak of responsibility then they should try to create a few fake accounts and say what they want, no one will listen to them. Social media like any other form of media operates on the principle of credibility. Those who are credible in this media and have a following have a voice which resonates and those who are not do not have a voice. Plus when one talks about responsibility they should first look at what goes on in their own shows as Talat who I consider the voice of reason among “political talk shows” points out below…

Let me also remind the esteemed “reporters” in mainstream media that not many of them “reported” on the incident at AAJ tv in their talk shows for one reason or another..wither responsibility?

3) Social media will never take off in this country and at best can run in parallel with our print media.

WRONG! Social media ala blogs and twitter has already left our print media far far behind in circulation. Its not some bolt from heaven that has inspired all the media houses to open up their own blogs its a doctrine of necessity. When mainstream media journos are themselves on twitter all day long how can they even claim that social media is some alien different system. The truth is that social media has actually absorbed mainstream media in pakistan in its midst and is now “indispensable”  As when you use any social media tool you become part of this giant mesh, in effect those making fun of social media are actually social media users..pretty ironical if you ask me.

The fact is that the only thing standing between social media and a digital explosion which would bring the roof down on our bumbling media houses is the “language barrier” We need effective translation tools in place for the masses to be able to “Access” this media..once that happens..there will be no mainstream media or social media..it will all just become “media”

P.S – I also condemn most vehemently the vicious comments made on social media against Nusrat Javed. There is no cause or reason that can justify what was said regarding the attack on aajtv on the sm medium by some people.


Wake up calls


I dont know how many write ups am I going to start with the words, its been a week from hell. Seems like lately every week is a week from hell here in Pakistan and all we can do as people who actually live here is to hold on to any sort of hope, however false it may be to get by.

In the last few days 80 feet of ice came crashing down on Pak soldiers in the Gayari district of Siachen. Rescue efforts are still underway to no avail as people start to give up hope for the 135 sons, husbands and friends buried there. All for a war which has no meaning, apparently as much strategic importance as a comb to a bald man and must come to an end sooner rather than later, before more brave men are sacrificed to it on either side.

Today has brought the terrible tragedy of a bhoja air flight from Karachi to Islamabad which virtually disintegrated in mid air in a landing pattern before Isloo. Rescue workers are still picking up body parts and our main stream media is exhibiting as it does with every such atrocity new lows in journalistic ethics. Thrusting mikes in the faces of sobbing family members left behind, showing pictures of dead body parts and so on.

In the midst of all this a friend receives the following SMS which she emails to me in outrage. It reads

The instant incident of live
burrial of >135 troops of
Pak Army at Siachin is neither due to an Avalaunch
nor a Cloud burst but a Satellite targeted Laser impulse by NASA which resulted into this Objective
Oriented Killing Of Pak troops after Salalah .
Plz forward for National
From:column of Dr Ajmal Niyazi Nawa e Waqt Lhr.11.04.2012

Upon reading this two things come to mind. Firstly the sender isn’t exactly very well versed in the language they are trying to communicate in with the creative spellings galore in their text. Which begs to point to the fact that this is probably another brainwashed citizen trying to become the breaking sms version of one of our main stream media houses by spicing up a few details.

Secondly the sms and its intentions points to perhaps what is one of our deepest lying faults “the instant ability to put the blame on someone else” How hilarious is it that in the upcoming budget we as a nation will need donations from the very west we are so apt at blaming for all our difficulties just to fulfill out basic requirements. Alms for Pakistan  please? Because we really believe that even natural disasters like the floods and landslides are a result of mysterious american super weapons. Everything is your fault we are just victims of circumstance! That will be 35 million dollars sahab, we take cash only!

Another part of this amazing conspiracy based blame them mentality is the acceptability of all things arab as the shining beacon of our ummah. This is the part that is usually used to soothe over any fears of the future. Brother muslims who will be there to help us should we be going down. Brother muslims who must be given precedence in all matters from hunting licenses to serving as guaranteers for our umpteen political deals because they are so very kool. Their advice must be sought in all matters, but hold on they wont let us invest in their countries without kafeels or marry into their society or holds jobs with any kind of security or rights. Where oh where is all this permitted to us lowly dregs of this world? “Gasp” You dont say! Not in the west! OMG they are just doing this to destroy our culture further dont you know!!

Off course in all this self serving finger pointing lifestyle the conscience of our society or its ability to self examine has been all but lost. When it comes to a point where natural disasters are being attributed to fantastical imperial weapons can we as a nation ever heal that which ails us? Why can’t we stop blaming or idolizing all other societies and do both of these things to our own selves. Idolize the good in pakistan, blame what is bad in Pakistan and fix it. Do something else rather than just sit and talk expertise on every subject via texts or videos or twitter or whatever.

Do something before it is too late.